Scars... What Do They Represent?
People often ask me why the back of my head is so covered in bumps and scars. I always explain the full story, but before I do, I want to make a quick point—because you know how much I love this kind of stuff.
The scars we carry, whether visible on the outside or buried deep inside, reflect our mindset. The meanings, reasons, and labels we attach to them shape our attitudes and actions.
The bump on my head? That’s from getting knocked out in a fight. While I was on the ground, someone smashed me in the head with a razor scooter.
The scars? I got those from being stabbed in the head with two bottles. There’s another on my shoulder blade from when a large knife punctured my lung. At the time, these marks were symbols of my ego, reinforcing the tough image I wanted to portray. Later, they became an excuse—proof of my victimhood, my “poor me” story.
Now, I see them differently. These scars aren’t just reminders of my past; they’re evidence of my transformation. They represent experiences that now allow me to help others. The same scars, but with a different perspective—one that brings clarity, purpose, and the ability to create real change.
Even the stretch marks on my stomach, reminders of when I weighed over 120 kilos, used to be something I tried to hide. Now, they’re proof of how far I’ve come, a physical representation of the tools and mindset shifts that I now share with others.
So, what scars are holding you back?
What past experiences are keeping you stuck?
What’s making you play the victim?
Yes, bad things happen—no doubt about it. But with a simple shift in perspective, those same painful moments can become the key to growth, resilience, and purpose.
Maybe you’ve been through something difficult, but that experience can either weigh you down or become the lesson that pushes you forward. It might even be the thing that helps you inspire and support others.
Change the story behind your scars, and you’ll change your life.
What I Do
Now, I use my journey to help others shift their perspectives, break free from limiting beliefs, and take ownership of their lives. As one of Australia’s leading motivational speakers, I travel the country speaking to primary and high school students, business professionals, parents, prisoners, and individuals from all walks of life.
In my talks, I dive deep into topics like resilience, self-awareness, mental health, overcoming adversity, and personal growth. But it’s not just about the words—it’s about creating lasting change. My approach is raw, real, and deeply relatable, helping people recognize the power they already have to rewrite their own stories.
Whether I’m speaking in schools, workplaces, or prisons, my goal is always the same: to challenge the way people think about themselves and their past, so they can take control of their future.
Life doesn’t just happen to us. We get to decide what our experiences mean and how we use them.
And that’s where real change begins.